Are you surrounded by happy people? Do you consider yourself a happy person?
"What's the point; happiness is overrated," you may think. Think again.
Happy people are more productive, more willing and collaborative, more creative and eager to take initiative and solve problems, have fewer sick days, attract happy customers, are nicer to be with, and make for a happier workplace.
Unhappiness sucks the life out of us. It brings stress, tiredness, sickness and ultimately kills us. Happy people make your life easier. They are more energizing to be around. They inspire you to be a better and happier person yourself.
What blind spots hinder happiness? Which of these hold you back?
- Dismissing the importance of happiness
- Misunderstanding the nature of happiness and its deeper levels
- Not recognizing what makes you happy
- Refusing to recognize the degree to which you are influenced by whether people around you are happy or unhappy
- The Absence of one of the 20 Elements of Happiness
We'll spare you the immense body of scientific research and discovery about the value of happiness, but there is plenty of evidence in case you need scientific validation in order to be happy.
Below are 20 essential elements you will find with people who describe themselves as happy. If you consider yourself a happy person, chances are many of these are already present in your life. If you would describe yourself as unhappy, this can help you identify the elements that are absent in your life. You can then choose to cultivate and develop these elements if you decide it's important to increase your happiness.
The happiness elements
Read through each of the 20 elements. Reflect on how you are doing with each of them to get a sense of your happiness profile. Grade yourself on a scale of 0 to 5 with each element: 5 represents a sense of being very fulfilled and feeling that this describes your situation very well and 0 represents the total absence of this statement in your life.
The Happiness Profile